I put the date where the state tax can be automatically taken from my checking account not realizing that I wouldn't have the tax return money in there yet. So I wanted to change that date to the date the tax return actually comes into my account so I don't get an overdraft fee. Thank you for your time and I look forward to hearing back.
Once you e-filed it is no different than putting the return in the mail. I always set my default payment dates to the last date due, no reason to pay earlier unless trying to limit interest for underpayments.
At this point your only option would be to contact your state and see if they could help you out. Here is a link to state revenue boards contact information.